Tumne uss din kaha tha ki main har cheez mein kamiya nikalta hoon. Shayad tumhe waise hi feel hua. Aur agar hua, toh us feeling ko main ignore nahi kar sakta. I understand how my behaviour made you feel that way.

Sach yeh hai ki Mujhe tum mein kabhi koi kami nahi dikhi. Tum jaise ho, mere liye hamesha waise hi perfect thi - from day one.

Main compliment kam karta tha. Reassure nahi karta tha. Admire karta tha, par bolta nahi tha. Aur uski jagah mazaak kar deta tha, unnecessary compare kar deta tha, ya faltu ka gyaan dene lagta tha. Shayad baar-baar sun kar tumhe laga ki main tumhe accept nahi karta. Woh meri immaturity thi.

II was teasing. But the thing is Even teasing can feel like measuring when reassurance is missing. This was about ur feelings that felt that you are being measured.

Tumne kabhi mujhe “not enough” feel nahi karaya. Main hamesha apni buraiyan ginayi - ki job nahi h, padhai nhi karta, alsi hoon, kuch nhi karunga, fir bhi tumne mujhe jaisa tha waise hi accept kiya. You allowed me to express myself as I want without the fear of being judged. Tumne mujhe insecure feel nahi karaya.

Par main woh same emotional safety wapas nahi de paaya. And that is my biggest regret.

Even if it was never my intention. But the thing is, Intent ≠ Impact. From my side, I never meant any harm. But From ur side- intent doesn’t cancel impact. And both can be true at the same time. Maine jo bina soche samjhe kaha, usne tumhe undervalued feel karaya. Aur jab insaan pyaar mein hota hai, toh woh aur zyada sensitive hota hai.

I feel misunderstood. U felt undervalued. Hum dono shayad apni jagah galat nahi the, bas emotionally misaligned ho gaye.

Maine dhyaan hi nahi diya ki reassurance bhi pyaar ka hissa hota hai. Sirf feel karna kaafi nahi hota, bolna bhi zaroori hota hai.

Aur ek baat - apas ka mazaak alag hota hai, par duniya aur family ke saamne main kabhi tumhe neecha feel nahi karata. Wahan main hamesha tumhare saath khada rehta, aur rehta.

Agar kabhi tumhe laga ki main tumhe kam samajhta hoon, toh woh meri expression ki kami thi - mere dil ki nahi.